WEEKEND WARRIORS: March 14-16

As always, there is lots going on this weekend, mamas.  We're gonna use some of the extra daylight to get the chillins out and about - and worn out!  Feeling the luck of the Irish in anticipation of Saint Patrick's Day?  Head on out to Kell's Saint Patrick's Day celebration. The kid-friendly (before 5:00 pm) street fair action includes Irish cheese tasting, face painting, crafts, Celtic dancing, and much more.  Know of any other can't be missed activities this weekend?  Spread the word on the Urban Mamas calender. 

Friday

Friday Morning Indoor Playgroup: Join Central Portland Families at their new Friday morning indoor play space at the Pearl Court Activity Center, $3 suggested donation. 10:00-11:30 am.

Mocha Moms: This weekly support group meeting (aka chat and plays) allows moms to discuss important parenting (and personal) issues while the children play. Mocha Moms is a support group for mothers of color. Anyone who supports the mission of Mocha Moms is welcome. Milagros, 11:00 am-1:00 pm.

Ladybug Walk: A 60 minute walk around Laurelhurst Park for preschoolers.  Rain or shine, no registration necessary, $2 per child. 10:00-11:30 am.

WEE-Post at the Waypost: Join other little ones for puppet making and this week's reading: "Wilfred Gordon McDonald Partridge" & "Whoever You Are" by Mem Fox.  3210 N. Williams, 11:00 am.

Story and a Stroll: Enjoy a short, guided walk that involves education about rocks and a reading of "Rocks in His Head".  Geared for kids 3-6, rain or shine, free.  Pre-registration required.  Tryon Creek State Park, 1:00-2:00 pm.

Bring a Dollar, We'll Make you Holler: This fund raiser for the Village Free School brings together several different performers (including Professor Banjo, Marilee Hord on fiddle, the Dancing Berbers, and others), a clown, face painting, giant bubbles, yummy food, raffles, an all ages spelling bee, and more. Sound like a great time for only 100 pennies. The Bagdad Theater, 3:00-5:00 pm.

Saturday

Pearl Bunny Hop: Hop along the streetcar loop to collect treat-filled eggs from eight kid-friendly businesses along the way.  Peter Rabbit and Apple the clown will make appearances and there will be other activities along the way.  Bunny Trail maps available from participating businesses now.   Bunny hop starts at 10:00 am.

Pretty Posy Pins: Learn how to create a flower pin using colorful fabrics, beads and other materials. Wear them yourself or give them as a fashionably fun gift. Northwest Library, 2:00-4:00 pm.

Delectable Designs with Cupcake Jones: Learn about the origins of foods like vanilla and chocolate found in this year's Every Family Reads book, "Yum! ¡Mmmm! ¡Qué Rico!" by Pat Mora. Then, create a mouthwatering masterpiece of your own by frosting and garnishing your own cupcake! Recommended for ages 5 and up. Gregory Heights Library (7921 NE Sandy), 3:00-4:00 pm.

Mudeye Puppet Show: Join the folks from Mudeye Puppets for an interactive show starring Cora Gated, the cardboard kid. All puppets made from reclaimed materials. $5 per child, $20 per family, at Backspace (115 NW 5th), 10:30-11:00 am.

Knitalong Kick-Off Party: There’ll be cocktails for the adults, choices of messy and dry activities for the littler ones, food for all, door prizes, and books to buy, with authors of Knitalong and a few designers on hand to sign them.  The party coincides with the store’s Ides of March Fiber Festival, which will be going on all around us and in the parking lot. Abundant Yarn in Sellwood, 4:00-6:00 pm.

Symphony Storytime: The Oregon Symphony is on the road for interactive, musical storytimes. This series focuses on storybooks, music, instruments, sound and fun musical crafts. Each week features a visit from an Oregon Symphony musician who will play and provide an introduction to his or her instrument and orchestral music. Enjoy music, hands-on crafts and fun for all ages!  Midland Library, 2:30-3:30 pm.

One Fish, Two Fish: Enjoy this bilingual performance (English/ Spanish) full of audience participation inspired by the classic Dr. Seuss story with Hay Caramba’s Kathy Karbo and Blanca Vazquez! Free.  Sellwood Library, 11:00-11:30 am.

Block Printing: Learn this fun printmaking technique with artist Kathryn Menard. Pre-registration required. Belmont Library, 3:00-4:00 pm.

Pacific Northwest College of Art: Free and fun art workshops. Children will screenprint on T-shirts and create mixed-media drawings. All materials, including T-shirts are provided.  11:30 am-1:30 pm.

Sunday

Urban Mamas Toy Swap and Lead Testing Event:  If you've got too many toys in your house or it's just time for some different ones, bring your gently used toys, games, and puzzles and swap them for some "new" ones.  Toys that don't find a new home will be donated. The Portland Development Commission will also be on hand to test toys for lead-based paint. Urban Grind, 3:00-5:00 pm. 

Tears of Joy Puppet Exhibit: More than 30 puppets and masks from 35 years of Tears of Joy Theater performances are on display. Central Library, 12:00-5:00 pm.

Shamrock Run: Get the kiddos out for the 1 k Leprechaun Lap or do the 5k, 8k, or 15k yourself!  Waterfront Park, 8:00 am.

Wish lists: for our mama community

Things have not been (how shall I say?) "easy" for me this year, and talking with other mamas, I find that several of us have had an unfortunate Year: 2007. The Golden Pig may be auspicious, but it hasn't been working out great for us.

While we all hope that our fates will re-align come 2008, I find myself often both asking and (not) answering the question, "what can I do to help?" and finding that it's a difficult topic. What can we do? Often, the thing we need is harder than the reason for needing it. If I could get a wish this holiday season, it might be something like this:

• If it's late at night, and you're scared about pregnancy/labor/a strange rash, don't be afraid to call and ask me to give advice/get medicine/make you feel not so alone.
  
• Come over and watch the boys for a half-hour so I can get out of the house.
• Appear at my door with fresh-baked treats.
• If you see me headed to the store/coffee shop, ask me to pick something up for you. I won't mind.
• When I ask how you are, be honest. Let me help.
• Never mind the state of my bathroom.
• Take my children to your house to play, sometimes. Be patient with them, even if I can't.
• Know that I thank you, that I feel your gratitude too, that there is no need for cards, unless sending them makes you happy.

What's your wish for your community?

urbanMamas poster gals for Portland blogging culture

Horn-tootin' time! A few weeks ago, Steve Woodward from the Oregonian emailed asking about just why Portland is such a great town for blogging? Turns out we've been ranked the second best blogging city in the nation (behind Austin, Texas: ironically, the originator of the 'keep Portland weird' campaign. Austin has to be first in everything, waaah!). Today the article was published on the front page of the 'Living' section and I was pleased to see both me and betsywhim (who contributes to, like, 30 blogs) representing the Portland blognoscenti. You can find the article here online but it's lots easier to read in print.

We know why we think Portland is such a good blogging town (and I'll quote myself): because Portland is so rainy and, more often than not, you're stuck inside and can't interact at the playground or the beach -- blogging is a way of connecting. It's also because you all are so non-judgmental and supportive, contrary to what we hear in the news and see on Other Cities' Communities. I think another aspect is that writers are drawn to Portland for its literary scene and bunches of us are spilling out our literary guts in blogs. What do you think?

Let Eco-Mama know what you're thinking!

A little while ago, we posted on the urbanMamas exchange a "Chinook Book Call for Local Columnists".  Thanks to that post, we've landed an urbanMama a freelance gig with EcoMetro, and she's now writing a regular column for them.  Jenn wrote us to give us an update:

I've been a longtime reader/occasional poster, and just wanted to give you all a giant thank you -- not only are you an awesome resource, you also landed me a blogging gig! I would never have heard
of the EcoMetro website's call for "green" parenting bloggers had it not been for a quick scan of Urban Mamas one afternoon, and now I have a weekly column with them entitled Eco-Mama.  What can I say? "Hooked on urbanMamas ... Worked For Me!" :)

I would LOVE feedback from other Urban Mamas as to what issues, products, and services they would like to see addressed in future columns. So far I have a column on cloth diapering resources in PDX, one on organic baby food options locally, and another forthcoming on the programs of the Oregon Environmental Council (eco-friendly childcare and baby showers).  Feel free to post these kudos/shameless self-promotion/feedback requests any way you see appropriate -- I just wanted to give a shout-out and say thanks again!

You can email Jenn at Jenn.Crowell.blogger@ecometro.com.

Do you Facebook?

First, there were the yahoo-groups, which eventually led to the creation of urbanMamas three or so years ago.  But, beyond the online groups, there are blogs and websites that convene oodles and oodles of people.  A while back, it seemed like all the cool kids were on Friendster.  Now, they're on MySpace.  Or Twitter?  Even Portland mamas and papas are on MeetUp.com.  It's online social network gone wild.

A former Portland mama just emailed me an invite to FaceBook, the latest and greatest of this genre of social webs.

I'm not sure I'm there yet.  Has anyone used Friendster, MySpace, Twitter, MeetUp, or FaceBook?  Have you met mamas or papas like you?  Or, reconnected with old friends (like my friend swears she did?)?  I think I can barely handle keeping up with favorite feeds we read and the yahoo groups....

Do you Yahoo!?

Most of you know that urbanMamas grew from a yahoo-group a few years ago; that group is now defunct.  Here at urbanMamas, we often get emails from mamas and papas all throughout Portland, looking for a playgroup or like-minded parents or stay-at-home parents or working parents.  We come in all strains and varieties.  Chances are, there's a yahoo group out there for you to connect with other parents!

I am personally a member of lots of yahoo groups.  My old standbys for Portland family-related groupie action include: Mamananda (an active & supportive group of mamas in North Portland), the Overlook Network (a group for family-related announcements in the Overlook neighborhood), urbanMamasRun (a group of mamas of all levels who like to run and connect for races or runs), and outdoormamaspdx (mamas who hike, bike, paddle and a forum for planning monthly excursions).  Tonight, I just found and joined MOB_Moms on Bikes, and can't wait to use the group to talk about family biking gear or even get together for family rides.

The yahoo group world is endless.  There are the Sellwood Playgroup Association groups.  There are 85 "Portland Mom" yahoo groups and about 137 "Portland Families" yahoo groups.  From an archived post, Kirstin offers:

If you're in Milwaukie, there is a chapter of Moxie Moms in your area:
http://www.moxie-moms.com/orclackamas/index.php

There is a group called Clackamas County Moms:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/clackamascountymoms/

And, there are two larger Portland groups for all Portland-Metro areas:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PortlandAreaMoms/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/mommys_in_portland/

Do you Yahoo!?  Which groups do you belong to?

Feeds we Read

Inspired by our recent ability to RSS to urbanMamas comments, which allows us to keep abreast of all the urbanMamas conversation, we got reacquainted with our feeds on our google reader (just recently having switched over from bloglines).  Blogosphere, o blogosphere, how much do I love thee?  Let me count the ways.  While there are blogs upon blogs of mama musings (don't forget to peep the urbanMamas blogroll), I dusted off all the other feeds in my reader:

• Food.  Just in case the hunny and I can steal away for some nice dining without the little folk, it's nice to read up on what's hot and what's not on Portland Food and Drink or ExtraMSG.
• Drink.  Just in case the hunny or the mamas and I can get away for a little drinky-drink or happy hour, we hit up BarFlyMag or Unthirsty.
• Gettin' Around.  Not only is BikePortland.org our ultimate resource on all things bikey, but it's also a great resource for current events and news on many regional public transit issues and upcoming policy.  For this multi-modal transiting family, it's a good daily read.
• Other stuff.  Toward the bottom of my list, I save room to glance at PDX MetBlogs and the Portland Business Journal.  I also keep a hot list of things we may want off craigslist - the current item du jour is a tandem bike.

Now that I've shared, what about you all?  What feeds do you read?

Eek! Email Error!

Ahhh, email.  So easy-to-use!  So easy-to-talk-through!  Ever crafted an email and hit "SEND" when you meant to hit "SAVE"?  Ever blurted out all your inner-most thoughts in an email thinking you could save it for later but then - !poof! - cyberspace whisks it away to send to the [un]intended recipient? Ever type something you didn't really mean? Ever been unnecessarily mean, sacrcastic, catty? Ever live to laugh about it later?

The authors of the new book SEND is looking for your "tales of misdirected emails and other errors of email etiquette".  Share your stories!

As a li'l somethin'-somethin' for your quips: urbanMamas would like to offer a couple of free tickets to the Just Between Friends pre-sale on Friday, April 27th, to some of the wackiest, craziest stories of email errors.

P.S. The authors, David Shipley and Will Schwalbe, will appear at Powell's this Sunday, April 22nd, at 7:30PM.

urbanMamas policy or r.e.s.p.e.c.t.

We have been talking about writing this for ages, and we finally came up with something on which we all agreed.

urbanMamas was created as a place for the frank and open exchange of opinions, information, and support for parents living in and around Portland, Oregon. We welcome readers and commenters to interact freely as long as you follow our two cardinal rules: treat others with respect, and be honest. We reserve the right to delete comments we feel are harsh and judgmental of one another; however, we support healthy debates given they follow rules #1 and #2. Please know that the opinions expressed here are opinions of a vast and diverse set of individuals, and treat them as such.

Judgment, honesty, and what we're doing here

A few weeks ago, I got an email from a reader to my blog. She titled it "obese" (for a moment, I thought it was spam) and pasted in a photo of Everett I took when he was about two, and I had looked up his height and weight on a BMI chart and found him to be morbidly obese, according to the government's calculations. (He was, and still is, a muscular, healthy kid, who obviously just doesn't fit the chart for "normal.")

She wondered why I talked about healthy eating so much but had an obese child! She wondered why the police picked up my children all over the neighborhood (during the snow day, Everett was so excited that he ran ahead of pregnant me and slow Truman, towards the park, and was found by a policeman as I hunted for him a few feet away). She wondered how I could have three children when I couldn't even take care of one. In essence, she wrote all those things I think in my dark times.

She wrote all the worst invections I use against myself, when I'm feeling overwhelmed, out of control, so damned imperfect. She wondered why I "pretend I'm perfect."

It was a blow. But I've come across people like her before, on Blogging Baby, where I wrote several times daily for two years before moving into the role as editor of BloggingStocks, which has an equally passionate but much less judgmental audience (yay for that). And I didn't immediately question my role as a parent, or decide to take down my personal blog altogether, or even cry. I've developed a bit of a thick skin.

But not everyone has. In fact, moms as a group are some of the most susceptible to this sort of shrieking judgment. While most of us wanted to be parents, very few of us had any sort of real preparation for what life would be like. We read the pregnancy books, it's true, and we joined the due date forum on Babycenter. Maybe we started a blog, maybe we had friends or sisters who were new parents, who helped us acclimate.

Let's face it, though, there's no college degree, no job experience that really prepares you to be a mother. To be a mommy-mommy-mommy, to be needed 24 hours a day even if you have to work 6 or 8 or 12 of them, to have everything in your life and body change, to change your sig file from some funky quote from a beat poet to "Sarah, mama to Everett, 4.5, and Truman, 22 months! <3 :)" To have the way everyone in the world looks at you change; to have a constantly evolving challenge for which you're not ever sure you're qualified. Because no child is perfect, no parent is perfect, no family relationship is perfect.

That why we need a community that only supports, only helps, only loves, only tells the truth constructively. That never, ever judges people for their human-ness -- but is, at the same time, frank and useful. That's what we created at urbanMamas, that's why we love Portland so much (because we found you!), that's why we're able to get through some of our worst days, our nastiest emails, without deciding to throw in the towel. That's why sometimes, we'll remove comments that don't support this community, that rain down personal judgment to other mamas. Maybe I can handle it (sometimes). But maybe it's a hard day for you. Maybe you can't.

And if there's one thing we want to do right, it's that: to protect we mamas from the judgment that we're all too eager to bring on ourselves.

(This doesn't mean that we don't want negativity here. We love negativity, if it's appropriate -- if you tell me you had a bad experience at a restaurant, or if you want to throw your pediatrician in the reject pile, we support your frank yet compassionate reviews. That's also what we're about. Please continue to report the truth from wherever you are.)

more urbanMamas' launchy love

Launches must be in the air this week. Today, Stefania (a.k.a. Citymama and former PDX-ite) IM-ed me with the link to the beta launch of her much-ballyhoed new job, ParentsConnect. I've been following the murmurs for a while given that another longtime friend of mine, who also has connections to Portland, is a featured ParentsConnect blogger.

The site's still in its early stages; it seems to endeavor to be a mixture of iVillage, Blogging Baby, and DotMoms. It's certainly wonderful to see so many sites cater to mamas, but it's interesting to wonder: just how much purchasing power are the marketing guys behind them attributing to us? Kind of makes you want to band together and demand more from them all, does it not?

One thing I know: it's fabulous that one side effect of this surge in places for mamas (and papas, grandparents, and babysitters) to connect is offering so many of us the ability to work from home. Yay for that!

Ma Blogging

New mama & blogger Liz is seeking some advice about fine-tuning her blog.  Any bloggers using Blogger can toss some friendly advice her way?

Last month when I was up at 3am breastfeeding my 2 month old son, I discovered your blog, along with all of the other local mama blogs. I immediately wanted to create one for my new son - but I had to backtrack to my first trimester to post all of the milestones. I found myself on a mission to get it done & it is finally up to speed. I started off w/ blogger, but maybe I will use type pad eventually. I still haven't figured out the "bells & whistles" for example I have no fave links listed as much as I have tried to add them. I am using a standard template - but this too I tried to change in html with no luck. Are there any blogging 101 classes for mamas?

PDX Mama Bloggers / Writers

Are You a Real Mom?

Calling all witty mama writers.  The editor of Real Moms Speak is looking for a few more writers.  Here's the scoop:

• Deadline is Monday, June 26
• Criteria for Responses:
  1. Less than 100 words in length
  2. Humorous tone -very important
  3. Fits the theme: Motherhood is a battle but one worth fighting
• Check the web site for sample answers.
• Chapters still needing insight include:
  • “Society: Being a Good Mother in Spite of It” – What expectations/messages do you feel society has for you that you try to reject in order to be a good mom?
  • “Sex after Baby: Who’s Got Dibs on My Breasts Tonight?” – I need some variety besides the standard, “We don’t have much sex anymore.” Think about issues like there being stages in a marriage—life with infants and toddlers is tough on the sex life but it gets better later on; this stage forces you to get better at communication; this stage provides a good excuse for getting your husband to take you on frequent vacations.
  • “Motherhood Myths: Timeless Truths That May Prove False”- What did everyone tell you about motherhood that hasn’t turned out to be true for you? Keep in mind that your response should help women have a more realistic image of motherhood.

Saying Hi

We're pleased to announce that Tony (of Milagros fame) and Cybelle have joined us as new contributing authors.  Look for their postings in the very near future.  And, hopefully soon, we will reintroduce all of our authors who have done a wonderful job thus far of contributing to the content on this site.

Literary Mama Meets W[h]ine Night

We are so fortunate to have so many well-read and well-written mamas amongst us.  Here's what Shari has to say:

I don't know how I got so lucky (pinch me--no, don't--two of my kids are vomiting today, so I'm suffering enough), but I have the privilege of being the new Creative Non-Fiction editorial assistant for Literary Mama (www.literarymama.com) and have an essay in the upcoming anthology, "It's a Girl", edited by the brilliant Andrea Buchanan. There will be some local MotherTalk events and bookstore readings in conjunction with the book's upcoming release and I'm collecting the email addresses of women who would like to receive an Evite to these events. So drop me an email or leave a comment here! (We'll be planning events in Seattle, too, so if you have friends up north who want to receive an Evite, have them contact me with their email addresses and ask them to specify "Seattle.")

I hope to see lots of UrbanMamas at the readings and MotherTalks (dates and locations to be announced--more shall be revealed). We are fortunate to have some amazing local contributors who you won't want to miss--and, anyway, who couldn't use another excuse to get out of the house, talk with other mamas, drink wine, and--did I mention TALK? Check out the MotherTalk blog site (http://mothertalk.blogspot.com/) for more insights on what it's all about.

urbanMamas is a Portland Pick!

Woohoo, mamas! urbanMamas just got Portland Picked! If you don't subscribe to this uber cool weekly newsletter put out by another cool urban mama, Kathi O'Neil, you simply must. Check out this week's picks at www.portlandpicks.com and subscribe today!

Thanks to Olivia and Hau and the other uMamas founders for all of their hard work in making this online community a truly supportive environment full of fresh, helpful resources, and to all of the uMamas who contribute and comment and read/lurk! 

urbanMamas famous at Blogher?

I suggested an idea to Elisa Camahort, the organizational mind behind the Blogher conference (July 28 and 29 in San Jose, Calif.), about leading a "Room of your own" session on group blogging. At first, it seemed eh to her, I think. Then I wrote about urbanMamas on Blogging Baby and fleshed out the idea for her. It's about community building, I said, not just management of disparate voices and personalities.

I feel that I've been co-parenting, both here and with the wider audience at Blogging Baby, with all my blogging buddies for the past year-and-then-some. I've made a number of decisions thanks to input from brilliant minds both here in Portland and across the world, thanks to comments on my posts, that I wouldn't have made in a vacuum. I feel that I've connected in an amazingly special way to other great Portland mamas through urbanMamas. I'd love to see you all come and cheer for the idea of having a "room of your own" over on Elisa's Blogher blog. And, come conference time, I would love, love, love if other urbanMamas could come with me to talk about this thing that we built, together. Even those of you who've joined us - as authors, commenters, or just as participants in our gatherings - recently.

On becoming a "mama blogger"

I'm excited to share something with y'all: I have two new articles up at the wonderful Mothers Movement Online. In The Blogging Mom Clique: Anyone Can Join, I talk about what it was like to join the community of blogging mothers (of course, I mention urbanMamas!). In A Weblog of One's Own, I outline how to get started with your own blog.

If you've never been to MMO before, be sure to click around. The editor, Judith Stadtman Tucker, does an amazing job of collecting links, presenting original material, and writing her own super-smart editorials, all of which focus on the intersection of motherhood and feminism.

PORTLANDONLINE CELEBRATES HERSTORY MONTH

...  Okay, well, the City of Portland is still calling it history month, but ...

Mayor Potter's office invites you to contribute your story or the story of a woman you admire.  Starting March 1, the City will post the stories (250 word limit) on a website (you will need to register with PortlandOnline to submit your entry.)

I have no idea how this little project will turn out, but it sounds like a nice effort.  All I can say is: we've all got a special story to tell, whether it be about being a full-time mother or about juggling a traditional career with mamahood or about creating a non-traditional profession in order to focus more on mamahood.  We have wonderful anecdotes daily about the joys, the humor, the quirkiness, the challenges, and the frustrations.  We share them every day - our stories & herstories - here on urbanMamas.  Maybe you want to share them with the City?

Practical Parenting Wisdom

Have you checked out (Portland's very own) Asha's new blog about practical parenting wisdom - Parent Hacks?  Well, you should.  It contains lots of nuggets of information in easy to digest posts that are quick to read and apply.  The beauty of it is that these words of wisdom aren't from the mouths of experts but from what I think are the true experts - parents that are in the thick of raising kids.  I often prefer the advice of other parents over the advice I glean from parenting manuals.  Way to go Asha!

What Can't Sarah Gilbert Do?

I took up Sarah's (that's Cafe Mama, Everett's Mama, Truman's Mama, Blogging Baby editor, Kenilworth-Abernethy blogger - oh, and don't forget contributor to Slash Food, TV Squad, and a founding urbanMama) open offer on a holiday card photo shoot.  We were a bit late heading out the door, and found Sarah waiting patiently with adorable Truman hanging from her hip/front carrier.  Everett was amusing himself by running around the square.  On top of that she had bags, blankets, and her camera along with her.  It really didn't feel like a photo shoot at all since we sat for one pose as she snapped away.  As we chased after the kids and pretended to look at trees, she took some more candids.  Again, it didn't feel like we were getting our pictures taken as I was more absorbed in making sure the kids were o.k., and chatting with some of the other mamas who showed up for the socializing.  Now, for my point!  Sarah is incredible.  She's such a busy mama, but to do a photo shoot with both of her boys with her, in busy, busy downtown, was a feat unto itself.  I am always in awe of other busy mamas (Sarah included) and being inspired by all that they do.

 

Literary Mama

It never ceases to amaze me the vast talent pool of mamas here in Portland. We are so lucky. Portland mamas are savvy, literary, wired, and always busy.  If you haven’t had the chance to check out the various PDX mama bloggers, I would suggest you do so! These mamas are full of insight, wit, humor, and provide a great on-line community base of knowledge about all things good and bad about parenting.

Recently, I happened upon Asha’s blog, a gifted writer and mama. Here’s a great example of her work.  It’s an article (Mama Bought the Cafe)she wrote for Hip Mama – an on-line zine.  It just happens that it was about Audra Carmine, a young mama that bought the Junior’s – a café in my wonderful neighborhood! You must read this article.  It’s beautifully written, and Asha has a wonderful way of connecting with the reader.

If you’re a mama blogger, let us know!  We’d love to link to your interesting post, or send us the content and we will post it for you.

Thanks for the w[h]ine!

Thank you so much to everyone who joined us at w[h]ine out last night.  It was a great time to meet, reconnect, and just unwind.  We had a great hostess at Pour, and we had some lovely libation.  I just love being able to personally connect with all of you, urbanMamas, up close and personal.

We will definitely do it again before too long.  W[h]ine nights will always be a favorite event for me, but we can also plan to do coffee/play dates so we can include our little people and partners too!  Can't wait to meet more of you.  Until then, read & share here on the site.  Thank you, all - you help to make urbanMamas the online community we always envisioned.

Dang, What She Said About Public Schools!

For some time now, I've been thinking about posting about the fact that I am in favor of sending my children to public school.  Because I won't do the topic half as much justice as this well-written piece, here's what some mamas had to say In Defense of Neighborhood Schools.  I echo their sentiments.  Oftentimes my husband and I will land on the discussion of education, and without hesitation I advocate for sending my sons to a neighborhood school, the very school that Leslie refers to in her piece. 

Community is such a beautiful thing, and it's one of the reasons why I we haven't considered moving to another city, or even to another neighborhood even though our family is quickly outgrowing our house.  Both my husband and I share this vision of letting our sons walk or bike to our neighborhood school.  We see our sons surrounded by a great support network of families which also happen to be our neighbors and friends.  Should we need a last-minute babysitter or someone to pinch hit for us, we could call on our neighbors to step in.  We see the value in developing deep meaningful friendships that begins at an early age, and can be so easy when your best friend lives within such close proximity.  The fate of public schools can only improve with strong support of the community and sending your kids to your neighborhood school.  Both my husband and I are products of public education, and we turned out just fine.

Lurking Pays Off

I'm a lurker.  I admit it.  Mostly because I usually don't have anything clever to say.  When I load up my feed on a nearly daily basis, I get excited when my favorite links appear in bold indicating there's a new post.  So, from my daily fix, I came across some exciting news.  What's more exciting than a flushable diaper?  The fact that it's available at every Portlander's favorite store.  We can forgive them for not stocking the elusive Nature Boy & Girl.  Thanks for the heads up, AfrIndie Mum!

Update:  Yes, I forgot the most important part.  I'm referring to G Diapers.  Got that Google?

Wanna Contribute?

When we started bouncing around the idea of creating an on-line parenting resource for the Portland metro area, we really envisioned that eventually the breadth of contributors to the site would expand to include other mamas interested in writing about and sharing their experiences - the good, the bad and the ugly!  In some of the early brainstorming sessions, we hoped to create something like the Berkeley Parenting Network which dear Erica greatly missed since her move away from the Bay Area.  So, here we are, about a year later, with something we strongly feel and hope that could be as useful to us mamas in Portland - this nifty thing we call the urbanMamas blog.  To keep up the momentum we wanted to create with the launch of this site, we are soliciting help from all you mamas out there.  Here's how:

• Send us an email.  Do you have interesting and insightful content for the site? Send us an email at urbanmamas [at] gmail [dot] com with your name, email address, and let us know if and how you'd like to be identified.  We would more than gladly post your column, question, or tidbit of knowledge!  Please understand we get tons of emails a day, and we may need a few days to get back to you.
• Send us info about events.  The urbanMamas calendar is so awesome only because of all your suggestions of fun & wacky & cool things to do in and around Portland.  Have a suggestions for an event for all the mamas, kidlets, and families out there?  Send us an event invite via Outlook, Google Calendar, or any compatible iCAL format and we will add it to our events calendar.  The more info the better, and be sure to include a link where we can find out more.  If you can't send an event invite, feel free to put all the info into an email to us.
• Post on the Childcare Forum.  So you wanna post a childcare related question?  Or maybe you have an opening at your childcare facility or preschool? Or maybe you want to rave about your fabulous nanny?  Or perhaps you're looking to sell / purchase, or pass along goods and services to fellow urbanMamas?  We're testing out a way to allow the urbanMamas community at large to post on the childcare and exchange forum.  Here's how it will work.  We've set up a junior level author account so that you can log into our blogging software directly to compose your question.  The complete instructions are found here.

The urbanMamas community is committed to providing a welcoming, nonjudgmental, open, supportive environment where parents can seek and share parenting advice.  The urbanMamas site is a purely grassroots effort and is maintained on by a few volunteer mamas in their spare time.  urbanMamas reserves the right to unpublish comments deemed to be detrimental to the openness we strive to achieve.

Guide to Preschool Philosophies

I was just re-surfing CafeMama's website and found a new addition: her guide to preschool philosophies.  I love it!  It's a great resource.  Thanks, cafemama!