Like a lot of parents, I am totally out of it on the cultural scene (and I mean totally). I can't even remember what the Schnitz looks like on the inside, and the last time I had beer and pizza while watching a movie was, e-gad, like 2 years ago. Sort of embarrassing, but at least I know I'm not alone (you know who you are...)! So when someone used the term Pay It Forward recently, I was confused enough to have to ask what they were talking about. Pay what forward? Forward where?
Since I haven't read a book in about 100 years, either, I didn't quite get to the book that inspired this whole phenomenon. Regardless, I dig the concept. So..... waddya say, mamas? Let's Pay It Forward this holiday season. I already owe one back since a woman I don't know bought me a coffee refill yesterday because my wallet was completely empty (and the guy behind the counter wasn't going for my proposal to come back later with the $.50 - even though I go in there like 1,000 times a week). But if I return that favor I'm sort of paying it back, not forward.
Of course all this is just a new name for an old, old tradition of being kind to others. But my take on it for the moment is to do something I wouldn't otherwise do - to push me beyond my normal "helping zone." So in the next month (and hopefully beyond) when an opportunity presents itself for Paying It Forward, I'm gonna do my best to step up the plate, to be an Activista in a different sense of the word. You??











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